{"id":30404,"date":"2021-10-19T13:26:12","date_gmt":"2021-10-19T17:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.hydroassoc.org\/?p=30404"},"modified":"2024-10-14T13:18:45","modified_gmt":"2024-10-14T17:18:45","slug":"supportsystem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hydroassoc.org\/supportsystem\/","title":{"rendered":"The Importance of a Support System"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A particular characteristic of hydrocephalus is that symptoms and challenges are often invisible to others, which can lead to a feeling of isolation. You\u2019ve likely had moments where you felt like your entire world has been turned upside-down from the condition or complications. It is not uncommon for you to feel alone or misunderstood. Building a strong support system will provide you with more options for coping with mental and physical hardships. We are here to remind you that you are not alone and offer tips as well as suggestions for building a strong foundational support system.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What is a Support System?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A support system is comprised of individuals you have a relationship with and are reliable. Your support plan should be developed during times of little to no stress. \u201cSupport can be emotional- being there to talk, or lending a shoulder to cry on, or physical- taking care of things like grocery shopping or walking your dog\u201d (Toporek &amp; Robinson, 1999). Building your circle of support should be easy and informal. You can start nurturing supportive relationships by reaching out to a family member- text or calling, asking a friend out for a coffee\/tea meet-up, having brief conversations with your neighbors, attending or participating in spiritual services\/groups, and volunteering.\u00a0 Support systems play an important role in helping you cope with the disruptions in life when crises strike.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Who is Part of My Support System?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First and foremost, remember that everyone\u2019s support system will look different so finding the people that best meet your needs and those you can rely on for help is critical. Some people may have a large support network of friends, family, co-workers, teachers, or faith leaders, while others prefer a small inner circle they can lean on. The overall goal is to seek out and build a support system that will personally help you not only during stressful times but also as you navigate living with hydrocephalus. Now let\u2019s discuss the various support sources you might want to consider as you begin to develop your plan:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Family and Friends:<\/strong> Being surrounded by caring and supportive individuals can be greatly beneficial for your overall health and recovery. Close family and friends usually offer emotional support in the form of empathy, love, trust, and caring. They will be eager to assist you so don\u2019t turn away their help. They support will provide you with the opportunity to rest and recuperate.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Neighbors:<\/strong> This can be your next greatest source of support outside of family and friends. Neighbors can be relied upon for quick errands or favors when crises strike, for example: caring for your pets, providing meals for you or the family, or yard work.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Coworkers:<\/strong> Work tasks can become overwhelming when you can\u2019t be there. Having at least one coworker that you can rely on in your absence can be invaluable. When you are experiencing complications and can\u2019t be at work, your coworker(s) might be able to assist you with any work-related issues.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Healthcare Professionals (social workers\/mental health\/neurosurgical team):<\/strong> You will feel empowered if you are surrounded by supportive healthcare professionals. These individuals can help you deal with problems during and after hospitalizations as well as work through any other health-related issues.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Faith Leader\/Clergy\/Church members:<\/strong> Hardships can be emotionally and physically draining. Many people draw strength and hope from their faith or spirituality. Hospitals have chaplains available for anyone in need of prayer or other forms of spiritual guidance. Your community church can also be a great source of comfort and support during difficult times.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Online support groups:<\/strong> There is a multitude of health-related virtual groups which provide you with the opportunity to find one that is the best fit. Support groups can counter the feeling of isolation and not being understood. It is a platform for sharing your story as well as learning about the struggles of others with hydrocephalus. It can be viewed as an extra source of therapeutic support in your medical treatment.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Hydrocephalus Association provides various forms of support:<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hydroassoc.org\/hydrocephalusconnect-peer-support\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">HydrocephalusCONNECT Peer Support<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 Hydrocephalus affects everyone differently, that\u2019s why it\u2019s important to have someone you can count on to support you in the way that you need. HydrocephalusCONNECT provides you with access to trained volunteers, via phone or email, who have been coping with the complexities of hydrocephalus.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hydroassoc.org\/find-a-community-network\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Community Networks<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 It\u2019s important to know that you\u2019re not alone as you deal with hydrocephalus. The Hydrocephalus Association\u2019s Community Network provides localized support, education, and empowerment through the community. Our network hosts educational events, support group meetings, and other gatherings that enable individuals and families to connect.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Share Your Story of Hope \u2013 Hydrocephalus affects everyone differently. Regardless of how you developed the condition, your story matters! Share your story of hope with the Hydrocephalus Association! Help us prove that people living with hydrocephalus are thriving despite the challenges of the condition, and give hope to others who are just starting their journey. Submit your story so we can feature it on our website!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hydroassoc.org\/share-your-story\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Share Your Story &gt;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hydroassoc.org\/hydrocephalusstories\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Read Stories of Hope &gt;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hydroassoc.org\/connect-with-us\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Connect with Us<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Start your journey today with the Hydrocephalus Association\u2019s network of hydrocephalus patients, caregivers, supporters, and friends. 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